A good man is proud of himself. He respects himself and others. He is aware of who he is. He neither seeks definition from the person he is with, nor does he expect them to read his mind. He is quite capable of articulating his needs.
A good man is hopeful. He is strong enough to make all his dreams come true. He knows love, therefore he gives love. He recognizes that his love has great value and must be reciprocated. If his love is taken for granted, it soon disappears.
A good man has a dash of inspiration, a dabble of endurance. He knows that he will, at time, have to inspire others to reach the potential they have. A good man knows his past, understands his present and moves toward the future.
A good man does not live in fear of the future because of his past. Instead, he understands that his life experiences are merely lessons meant to bring him closer to self knowledge and unconditional self love.